9 Reasons Girls Don’t Like You

Let’s have a real conversation because it feels like a lot of guys are clueless. See, the reason why you continue to be unsuccessful with women is that you’re paying no mind to certain things that speak louder than your perceived kind gestures. Here are some reasons girls don’t have an interest in you. Why don’t women like you? I’ll tell you, just read on. 

Why don’t women like you?  Here are Reasons Women Don’t Like You

Acting Too Loud

You’re too loud. Just too loud! And it’s understandable why some guys are being too loud – youthful exuberance. When your adrenaline and your testosterone mix, it can sometimes be a big turn off for women who don’t necessarily like to see or engage the loudest guy in the room because they come across as very obnoxious, full of themselves, don’t respect anybody, they think they’re self-made, maybe, and don’t need anybody by their sides.

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And that could unknowingly be pushing women away from you even before you had a chance to say “Hello”. Some guys are just too loud. Too loud! Tone it down.

Living An Unambitious Life

You live an uninspiring life. I mean, you’re hanging around with your boys all the time, playing video games. She doesn’t seem to see you doing anything, worth anything. You know.

And as much as women like men who are fun to be with, they also like ambitious men. And I’m so sorry. But you can’t get through this, you can’t win this relationship game if you’re going nowhere, because nobody wants to associate with a loser, to be honest.

And if you can’t seem to be figured out, can’t seem to see that guy who’s got his future figured out.” Even if you may. If they don’t see that, there’s no way women are going to follow you.

And for most women, if you have money, it’s a great incentive for them. But there are other crops of women out there who do not look at money at all in actual fact. They are more interested in, what you bring to the table? Where you’re going? How big your dreams are, and that kind of stuff? And that’s more what they look out for.

For some kind of woman,  if they go for self-made men they feel like he’s already self-made, he doesn’t need them for the rest of his life. Well, they are going to be what? Be at his beck and call. And not every woman likes that kind of thing.

If you have an uninspiring life, people can’t see what’s going on for you? People don’t know anything about your dreams. And this doesn’t mean you should go and spill your dreams to everyone because there are people who steal your dreams as well if you talk too much, but you should be seen to wanting to do something, to do better, to improve, to change your circumstances. And women find that really, really attractive.

Don’t Be Quick To Compliment The Physical Qualities Of A Woman

Now there are a lot of you guys who jump in front of a woman at a party. And straight away you go ahead to compliment her body, her looks, it’s all very superficial and physical. Yes, some women like that, but there are a lot of them who are also turned off by it.

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So if you start to throw out that whole “Ooh, baby looking sexy” kind of vibe as soon as you see a lady two minutes into your conversation. You might lose her because some lady always gets this sort of compliment daily. They know they are good looking. They make use of the mirror before going out. they don’t need you to validate that for them.

And for men who are really, really expressive when it comes to a woman’s physical attributes. You could be losing out big time on women who do not appreciate that kind of conversation. So you might want to pay a little bit more attention to the way you approach women. Don’t go in directly and start complimenting her body. She wants to think that you’re actually interested in her beyond the physical stuff.

Reset Your Mindset

First, do away with that impression and mindset that girls don’t like you. Though a couple of girls may not like just because of what may have happened between both of you or because of their personal experience or preference don’t worry about it. Such category of women is only less than one per cent of girls you have access to. There are loads of fish in the river. Go for it!

Sometimes it is the first thing that could attract you to a lady. And indeed, the first thing that would attract you to even want to engage with her is the way she looks it is understandable. But through conversation, through that initial engagement, you can get her to open up to you and get a good sense of the kind of person she is? Who she is? What did she want? What she loves to do, etc? Without it coming across as just in for the kill. Looking at her physical appearance and wanting to get her into bed, that’s a bloody turnoff. That’s a really big turnoff.

You’re Too Arrogant

 Too arrogant! Now, this tends to happen a lot with men who feel like they have come as far as they have, without anybody’s help, self-made men. And don’t get me wrong, confidence is actually sexy. But there’s a really thin line between being confident, and it dovetailing into or swaying into arrogance.

 And usually, this comes through in the way you interact with a woman that you just met or a woman you’re trying to woo and it comes across as a big turnoff because arrogant people are usually very self-absorbed. It’s all about “Me,  I did this, I am going to do this. I can do this for you.” And every time you say “I” it’s less about her.

But she wants to know that she’s going to get with a man who actually loves her and cares about what she thinks, about where she’s going? Who thinks about her dreams, too, and how he can make an input into her life.

Your Appearance Is Boring.

 And that cuts across, you’re not cleanly shaven. Yeah, maybe you managed to buy some expensive perfume, you smell nice, but at the end of the day, you look so scruffy, you don’t seem to have your life together. Appearance is everything! Appearance is everything!

Okay, some people are blessed with better looks. And that’s okay. In this world, we all can’t look like Hollywood stars, right? But not all good looking people necessarily are successful when it comes to relationships. And why is that? Because at the end of the day, it doesn’t really matter about how you look.

Looks only get your attention. It is not what keeps a relationship.  Don’t get it wrong,  looks matter, but they’re not everything. If you know what this means, You could be a really handsome guy, and yet have a really bad attitude. And that alone is going to push women away from you.

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Now think about this. Ask yourself, when you look in a mirror just before you step out, “Am I going to be attracting the kind of woman I want to have in my life by the way I look?” If your answer is, “No”. Well, there you have it. Go back in and change. Alright, appearance matters. Are you well-groomed? Do you smell nice? Are you wearing nice, clean clothing?  Women are attracted to those things. So pay extra attention to your appearance.

You are A Talkative

Another thing, you talk too much! Now women detest men who seem to know everything. They know the answers to everything, they will give the answers to everything and they will not listen to anybody else opinion on the matter because they seem to have it all figured out.

Nobody likes a “ know-it-all.” And there are a lot of men who in their quest to impress women just go really overboard with this whole, “Oh, yeah. But you know, this isn’t right.” “Oh, but you know, this is how this came about.” “And you know,” and at the other day, they even tried to tell people how they should feel? Everybody’s gonna be sitting there like, “Okay, what’s going on here like this guy. what does he think he is?” He knows everything. Okay. So you’re a walking dictionary. 

Girls want to go with that guy who will rather hear them out and consider their opinion on things instead of telling them, “Oh, you can’t, you have to do this. And you can’t do that.” You know what this means, right? 

Just keep the talking to a minimum. People start to get bored when you just don’t know when to stop, you just going in blah, blah, blah, blah!  Okay. Women don’t like talkative because you end up saying too much than you ought to. It’s a turnoff. It really is.

If you’re too attached

And this one can be cute. But can also get really unattractive very fast. If you’re too clingy. Okay, depending on the level of your relationship, how far you’ve gone, whether you just met the woman or not. She doesn’t want you always in her space.

Yeah, it’s nice to check up on her once, maybe morning, maybe in the evening, a little message here, a little message there. But when it grows into something where you constantly want to be with her.

You are not giving her any space to breathe. You’re just like, “I don’t want you to go out with your friends.” You may meet other guys. I think this guy likes you. Don’t be too friendly with him. Don’t answer that call. It might be a guy who likes you…! It’s horrible, it makes you want to pull out your hair. Don’t do that. Okay?

Sometimes the love is so deep. You want to just have that amazing woman all to yourself. But remember, she’s an individual. She has a life too. She has things she wants to do. She doesn’t always want to be with you just like you may not always want to be with her as well. Because you have a life outside each other.

You Are Too Shy

 So yeah,  hope this helps and you can turn things around and increase your chances of landing the girl of your dreams. Why don’t women like you? Because you do these things. What do you make of these points?  You can leave a comment below.

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